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Are There Any Meetings In My Area For Dementia Caretaker?
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Your area at Church here different weeks

Exelon
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My wife has been giagnosed with early dementia and is taking exelon.
She sleeps over 16 hours a day and I am wondering is this is related to the meds.

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@Exelon Welcome Exelon! This site is very helpful and encouraging. I have learned alot here and everyone has been very supportive.

Sleeping a lot can be due to some meds. Not sure about ALZ… read more

Walking Distance
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My Dad is 80 and mum is main carer. Today he said he was unable to walk while they were out. My mum also 80 had to try and get him home. He went to bed and totally forgot all about it. It was frightening for mum and I was away on business. Is this a normal thing to happen at mid stage. Dad seems to have gotten worse fairly quickly.

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Bill is classed as a 'faller', but that is because his balance is 'shot' through the vascular Parkinsons/dementia. He needs help standing, but will manage a few steps once he has his balance. As far… read more

I Was Told Waiting List For Memory Care Is 2,3 Years. Is It True?
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To all
I posted before finishing abd can not edit .. I don’t know why
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We do not get any help from VA or insurance.
I found the perfect Board and Care for my husband . My husband gets… read more

My Husband Has Alzheimer’s And Early Onset Parkinsons.The AD World Is So Mysterious.
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Every conversation with neighbours all summer, and on his walks he would say’ winter is coming’, even in the heat of summer.Now the ground is covered with snow and it is -30 outside and he looks out and says ’ signs of spring’!!! !
Have others observed this?Any explanations? It is hard not to correct him.

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The original question was Early Parkinson w dementia. I have both! Lately, I have felt the degenerative aspects of both! Stiffness, stooped over, and weakening, despite exercising! Gotta keep doing… read more

How Can I Say No Without Being Negative?
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My spouse often acts like a toddler, when I say "no don't do that" he pouts. He picks his nose and then puts his finger in his mouth, and when inside our home he asks if he can pee in the backyard, how can I say something that won't be so harsh that it has me sound like a Mom saying no, that's gross? Plus I'm pretty negative when he does pout.

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Thank you all for your support. Yes, my daughter and I have patched up our relationship. I did apologize and said I just wanted to move forward. I told her I understood how hard it would be to move… read more

How Has Anyone Dealt With A Loved One With Alzheimer's Being Angry, Lashing Out At People, Etc. ?
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It’s a very intimidating experience but one you have to learn to allow. My daughter and I shared them with my mother. When she would have an outburst, we would remind one another it was the disease… read more

What Does Your Loved One Do When You Are Busy Doing Something Else?
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I feel bad. I brought my dad into our home. He was a farmer. He had cattle and cats he watched over. It was getting expensive to let stay at home. Letting him stay at home by himself, wasn't an option anymore. At our house, I feel guilty. He's just sitting around like a rock on a log. He loves walks, cat rides, shopping, church and meeting new people. I tried to get him to feed our cat. Started out good. Now not so much. Sometimes, he will work on a puzzle. What do others loved ones… read more

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Sorry to hear that Muggy! Hugs to you! ❤️❤️❤️

My Mom Is Constantly Sick With Something... L
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I’m constantly having to leave work due to her calling an ambulance or doctors appointments...now we won’t get a vacation this year because I’ll have no leave. I also need back surgery that I put off last year. Any advice?

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@A myALZteam Member Yes, Cher51 hs said it well. You need the surgery to prevent further deterioration of your back.And then there is the followup of physio and appointments for several months… read more

What Is Lewy Alzheimers
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From what I understand its a back lobe alzheimers that progresses quite fast.