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I am carer to my wife and she keeps repeating a bid in the game of bridge ( last played 4 months ago) .I understand this is called a loop.
Any advice or helpful hints on how to deal with this change in behaviour would be wonderful.

August 23
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What a devoted partner you are for seeking ways to better support your wife. Repetitive speech, or "looping," is very common with Alzheimer's and can be challenging to navigate. The good news is there are some gentle strategies that can help.

Here are some helpful approaches:

- Listen patiently — even if the words don't Show Full Answer

What a devoted partner you are for seeking ways to better support your wife. Repetitive speech, or "looping," is very common with Alzheimer's and can be challenging to navigate. The good news is there are some gentle strategies that can help.

Here are some helpful approaches:

- Listen patiently — even if the words don't make sense, she may be trying to express a feeling or need
- Validate her emotions — acknowledge what she's saying warmly rather than correcting her
- Gently redirect — try shifting her attention to a calming activity, a favourite song, or a pleasant memory
- Avoid disagreeing — a myALZteam member found that simply agreeing, rather than correcting, made a big difference in reducing agitation
- Follow her lead — the bridge bid may carry an emotional connection; leaning into that feeling rather than the words themselves can help

It's also worth noting that looping can sometimes be triggered by anxiety, discomfort, hunger, or tiredness. Checking those basics first can sometimes ease the repetition. If the behaviour feels like it's significantly impacting her quality of life or increasing in intensity, it's always worth mentioning to her doctor. They can help rule out any underlying causes and suggest additional support.

You're doing a wonderful job — caring for a loved one takes enormous strength. 💙

August 23

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