This is such a tender time, and it's clear how much you love your Nana. Helping her through this transition takes patience and lots of reassurance. Here are some tips to make the move smoother:
- Focus on expressing love and comfort often
- Use clear, simple language to explain what will happen
- Show her photos of the new Show Full Answer
This is such a tender time, and it's clear how much you love your Nana. Helping her through this transition takes patience and lots of reassurance. Here are some tips to make the move smoother:
- Focus on expressing love and comfort often
- Use clear, simple language to explain what will happen
- Show her photos of the new facility before she moves
- Keep her usual routines as consistent as possible
- Remind her frequently that she is safe and loved
- If she becomes upset or confused, gently redirect her attention and try again later
A myALZteam member shared, "Having a routine is key, as is making sure all her basic needs are met. My mom needs to be reminded often she is safe, who she lives with, and that we love her."
Also, talk to the facility staff ahead of time about your concerns — they are experienced with these transitions and can help make moving day easier. As for her love of dogs, that's a beautiful connection to nurture! Pets and animals can bring real comfort to people with Alzheimer's. Some ideas:
- Bring her current dog for visits if the facility allows it
- Show her photos or videos of her dog and past pets
- Ask the facility about therapy animal visits
- Consider a realistic stuffed animal dog for comfort between visits
Many myALZteam members have noticed their loved ones truly brighten up around animals. One myALZteam member noted their loved one "literally brightened up" when a new pet came into the picture. For soft foods that are easier and safer to eat, here are some great options:
- Yogurt, oatmeal, and applesauce
- Soups and smoothies
- Baked fish and soft-cooked vegetables
- Cheese cubes and soft fruits
- Pureed foods if chewing becomes more difficult
A few extra mealtime tips to keep things safe and enjoyable:
- Add sauces or gravies to moisten food
- Serve food in bowls with protective rims
- Cut everything into small, manageable pieces
- Keep her head elevated while eating
- Check food temperature before serving, as she may not notice if it's too hot
A myALZteam member suggested trying pureed foods when chewing and coughing become a concern. It's also worth asking her doctor about a referral to a speech therapist, who can help manage swallowing safely.
October 24