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Just watching her age right before my eyes each day that’s the hard part. And the sundown is getting worse.

July 28
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Dealing with someone who shows varying signs of Alzheimer's can feel overwhelming, but there are practical strategies that can help. Since symptoms can shift day to day, staying observant and flexible is key.

Here are some helpful approaches:

- Stay calm — Avoid arguing or trying to correct your loved one. Remaining Show Full Answer

Dealing with someone who shows varying signs of Alzheimer's can feel overwhelming, but there are practical strategies that can help. Since symptoms can shift day to day, staying observant and flexible is key.

Here are some helpful approaches:

- Stay calm — Avoid arguing or trying to correct your loved one. Remaining patient reduces stress for both of you.
- Don't take it personally — Behavioral changes like anger or confusion are part of the disease, not a reflection of your relationship.
- Use gentle distraction — If something is upsetting them, redirecting their attention to a calming activity can help.
- Watch for hidden causes — What looks like confusion or agitation may actually be pain, hunger, or thirst.
- Focus on what they can still do — Highlighting their abilities helps preserve their sense of independence and self-worth.
- Be present — Sometimes just sitting with your loved one offers comfort, even without words. A myALZteam member shared this insight: "I realize I am the one who needs to change. Learn not to take it personally. Don't engage and argue. I don't have to be right if I want peace."

It's also worth talking to a doctor if symptoms feel unmanageable — they can help develop a care plan tailored to your loved one's needs.

July 28

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