How do you balance treating a loved one with early onset dementia like a child while still giving them the respect they deserve? This is one of the most emotionally complex parts of caregiving, and you are far from alone in feeling this way.
A myALZteam member shared something very similar, describing how their marriage Show Full Answer
How do you balance treating a loved one with early onset dementia like a child while still giving them the respect they deserve? This is one of the most emotionally complex parts of caregiving, and you are far from alone in feeling this way.
A myALZteam member shared something very similar, describing how their marriage was transitioning to feeling more like "parent with a dependent" faster than expected — and how that shift brought real grief and loneliness alongside the love. Here are some ways to honor his dignity while still keeping him safe and supported:
- Focus on what he can still do — Highlight his abilities rather than his limitations. This helps preserve his sense of independence and self-worth
- Involve him in decisions — Where possible, include him in choices about his care, daily routines, or even small things like what to eat
- Narrow choices gently — Instead of removing choices altogether, simplify them so he doesn't feel overwhelmed
- Use a calm, warm tone — How something is said matters as much as what is said
- Redirect rather than correct — Gently steering him away from frustration is kinder than pointing out mistakes
The shift in roles is genuinely hard and it's okay to grieve that. Seeking support through counseling or a caregiver support group can help process those feelings too.
August 28
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