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How do I deal with same questions over and over all day?

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Baxley, GA

Husband had dementia /alzimers

October 12, 2025
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A myALZteam Member

I have started using a white board to write down the days events. It took him a few times to understand what it was for, but now I just refer him to the board when questioned repeatedly. My husband has trouble reading, but spends some time reading the board now. It’s especially helpful if I’m going to an appointment myself so he knows why I left and when I’ll be back.

October 14, 2025
A myALZteam Member

I don't have any answer most of the time I have the patience but he has days he wants to talk constantly, it makes me want to hire someone to come in and just talk with him. Don't have a resource for that.

October 12, 2025
myALZteam

Dealing with repetitive questions from someone with Alzheimer's requires patience and understanding. Here are some helpful strategies:

• Stay calm and respond with a gentle, reassuring tone
• Answer the question simply and directly each time
• Try redirecting their attention to an activity or different topic
• Consider Show Full Answer

Dealing with repetitive questions from someone with Alzheimer's requires patience and understanding. Here are some helpful strategies:

• Stay calm and respond with a gentle, reassuring tone
• Answer the question simply and directly each time
• Try redirecting their attention to an activity or different topic
• Consider writing down common answers where they can see them
• Share your own experiences first to help guide the conversation It can help to keep a dedicated notebook or use your smartphone to track common questions and effective responses. This allows you to stay organized and maintain consistency in your answers.

Remember that your loved one isn't asking the same question to frustrate you - their brain is processing information differently now. Taking breaks when needed and practicing self-care will help you maintain patience throughout the day.

October 12, 2025

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