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What Can I Do To Help My Husband With His Delusions?

A myALZteam Member asked a question 💭
Massachusetts

Help! My husband has been having more and more delusions. He’s been keeping me up most of the night lately. He’s been having me check to see if the car has been moved, he insists he’s talked to people who are no longer with us and says they also want to talk to me. He called 911 the other night because he said someone came and told him his friend was in danger. Now, he’s obsessing about money. He’s calling everyone he can think of to tell them we’re billionaires. He’s insisting I take him to the… read more

February 3, 2021 (edited)
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A myALZteam Member

my husband too was given seroquel, it did help. after a bit he would still think people were coming. I would tell him stories, the car broke down, change of plans for the imaginary people coming. Just rolled with it, somehow or other it worked. Calmed him down..same with money. told him I hid it so no one would steal it, tools, anything . Had it all taken care of, it gave him peace me too.

February 4, 2021
A myALZteam Member

My husband gets upset and agitated with imaginary people. It has been an issue for us for 4 years. Initially, I tried to handle without medication, but almost 2 years ago our neurologist prescribed Seroquel also called Quetiapine. We started with a low dose of 25 mg and eventually over time increased to 100mg given in the afternoon and bedtime. This was a life saver for us, as I thought I wouldn’t be able to take care of him by myself unless we got a handle on the agitation. He still thinks there are imaginary people, but the medicine along with some behavior changes on my part of just being accepting and trying to distract have improved his agitation and sleep markedly. The drug has a black box label warning for use in the elderly that was scary for me, but my husband tolerated the drug well, and as I said for us it was the difference for my sanity and the ability for me to be able to take care of him by myself.

February 3, 2021
A myALZteam Member

You might find Teepa Snow videos on YouTube really helpful. My mom is at a stage of more hallucinations and it can be hard on both of us. Teepa has good suggestions.

February 3, 2021
A myALZteam Member

I agree with anything my husband says within reason. Live in their world and work around what they are seeing or hearing. You have to be creative to keep them calm . ( you can’t poor concrete if it’s snowing outside 😄 )

March 22, 2021
A myALZteam Member

Teepa snow on youtube has helped understand alot about dementia and has helped me deal with alot of situations differently. Stay strong

March 17, 2021

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