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Is it a fact that people with alzimers lose their ability to speak?

A myALZteam Member asked a question 💭
Wauregan, CT

My husband has declined very quickly in the past few months. The only word he can say is “yes”. He no longer can express what he wants to say. he’s not able to say if he’s in pain or if he needs anything. It’s frustrating. I experience a very heavy heart every day. I miss him. I’m so angry that I can no longer hold a conversation with him. It's a horrible disease. I hurt so deeply every day having to watch him go thru this.

September 13, 2020
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Members confirmed that losing the ability to speak is indeed a common feature of Alzheimer's progression, with some describing it as aphasia,... Read more

Members confirmed that losing the ability to speak is indeed a common feature of Alzheimer's progression, with some describing it as aphasia, a communication decline that can range from mumbled speech to complete silence over months or years. Several members shared deeply personal experiences of caring for spouses who no longer talk, describing the heartbreak of one-sided conversations, the challenge of interpreting nonverbal cues, and the comfort found in continuing to speak to and play music for their loved ones even without a response. A recurring theme was the profound grief of losing conversation while the person is still present, met with gentle encouragement to lean on prayer, family support, and the community's understanding of this painful stage of the disease.

A myALZteam Member

Steve sorry to hear that, and I think R. will get there also due to past medical history due to be a preemie baby. I know its hard when you have a one sided conversation or asking yes or no questions. Mm hat is off to you for your patience. Good luck with her future care..

September 14, 2020
A myALZteam Member

Aphasia is a feature of some dementias and happens for some people with Alzheimer’s. My wife hasn’t spoken in 5 years.

September 13, 2020
A myALZteam Member

R. can still talk but sometimes its hard to follow her words, and for her to hold a conversation. Mornings are a lot better for her than afternoons due to her sundowners.

September 13, 2020
A myALZteam Member

My husband can still talk but can’t hold a conversation. His mom had Alzheimer’s and she stopped talking.

September 13, 2020
A myALZteam Member

Thanks for your comments. We are early into this journey. We have been married for 62 years and it is so hard to see him suffer like this.i keep a stiff upper lip.some days are better than others
My son lives with us and I don't know what I would do without him.he does all the grocery shopping. He says my job is to take care of his dad.i am learning to pray alot.barb

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