My husband thinks he can wash anything without soap!

I know. My guy will put a shirt on a shirt or underwear over pants. They just have to be redirected. Same thing each day. Like Groundhog Day. Remember that movie?

My husband would sleep in his day clothes or go any place in his pjs. Laying things on the bed in the right order used to work. Now, he doesn't understand on, off or comprehend what body part I am talking about. We would both end up upset. Now, instead of trying to teach, I have started helping him which works if I can control my tone of voice. I tell him it is time for a shower, turn it on and direct him in removing his clothes....so far so good. But, I also have to direct him to use soap and where to wash.

I found it easier to dress hubby in pajamas he usually wore bottoms and a day shirt at home and he had solid color bottoms that he wore in public An aide helped bathe him twice a week and I cleaned him daily and changed his clothes as needed I started helping him when he would forget to use soap. And would want his dirty clothes back on

Just like my other half. He removes the dishes and tells me he washed them by hand and when I watch him he is only using running water and his fingers.