It sounds like a really frustrating situation, and it's clear how much you care about her wellbeing. This kind of repetitive behavior is very common with Alzheimer's, as it can affect judgment and awareness of what's already available at home.
Here are some approaches that may help:
- Gently redirect her focus when she starts Show Full Answer
It sounds like a really frustrating situation, and it's clear how much you care about her wellbeing. This kind of repetitive behavior is very common with Alzheimer's, as it can affect judgment and awareness of what's already available at home.
Here are some approaches that may help:
- Gently redirect her focus when she starts to order — try involving her in a simple task nearby
- Limit access to ordering apps or accounts if possible, or set up a system where orders need a second approval
- Give her a "role" in meal planning so she feels involved and in control, which may reduce the urge to order independently
- Keep a visible, simple list of what's in the pantry to help her see what's already there
- Offer limited choices — instead of open-ended shopping, ask "Do we need apples or oranges this week?"
A myALZteam member found success by giving their loved one a sense of involvement while quietly managing the bigger decisions behind the scenes. It's also worth speaking with her doctor, as they may have additional strategies or be able to assess whether any adjustments to her care plan could help with this behavior.
August 12
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