Balancing family time with your husband's well-being after events is such a common challenge. The good news is there are ways to make gatherings easier and reduce that post-event distress.
Before and during events, consider these steps:
- Keep gatherings small and simple to avoid overwhelming him
- Give family members a Show Full Answer
Balancing family time with your husband's well-being after events is such a common challenge. The good news is there are ways to make gatherings easier and reduce that post-event distress.
Before and during events, consider these steps:
- Keep gatherings small and simple to avoid overwhelming him
- Give family members a heads-up about how Alzheimer's may affect his behavior, so no one takes it personally
- Have a quiet room available where he can retreat if things get too stimulating
- Bring a comforting item like a favorite blanket or familiar photos
- Limit background noise and sudden changes in the environment After events, sticking closely to his usual daily routine can help him resettle more quickly. Consistency with meals, activities, and bedtime is especially calming.
If he becomes distressed, try:
- Speaking calmly and softly
- Redirecting his attention to a favorite hobby or music he enjoys
- Offering gentle reassurance rather than correcting or arguing
- Using a comforting touch or soothing lotion massage on his hands
A myALZteam member shared that taking someone's dominant hand, lowering your tone, and repeating soothing words can work really well to calm distress.
Always let his doctor know if the post-event distress seems to be getting worse or changing, as they may have additional suggestions.
May 4
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