I try to redirect him and go for a walk or talk about things he enjoys

My wife has same. Have to eat supper about 4. First sign of darknessthe cha ge in her starts. Nothing much to fo for it. .usic seems to calm her down. Likes Hallmark movies. No violence. Try to get her to sleep. It is not easy i know.

My husband is bed bound. He can sit on side of bed only