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A myALZteam Member asked a question 💭
Minneapolis, MN

We can not get mom to go in for a memory or ALZ screening. How important is it to have an official diagnosis?. I have done research and am pretry certain she has ALZ.....stage 2 or 3. I know there are prescribed medication that can help but not sure she would be willing to take them. I think she would be devastated to learn she has ALZ and am not sure putting a lable on her memory issues would be beneficial. Thougths? What have you done in this situation? I need advice.

September 27, 2020 (edited)
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Members strongly encouraged getting an official diagnosis for a loved one suspected of having Alzheimer's, emphasizing that early evaluation... Read more

Members strongly encouraged getting an official diagnosis for a loved one suspected of having Alzheimer's, emphasizing that early evaluation by a neurologist opens access to medications that could slow progression, helps qualify for benefits like Medicaid or Veterans services, and rules out other treatable conditions like thyroid issues. Several members shared creative strategies for getting reluctant family members to agree to testing, including framing the appointment as proof they don't have Alzheimer's, going through a trusted primary care doctor first, or using tests like the clock drawing assessment to demonstrate changes gently. A recurring theme was the difficult balance between protecting a loved one's feelings and ensuring they receive proper care, with some members choosing not to explicitly discuss the diagnosis while still managing symptoms and medications day to day.

A myALZteam Member

When my husband took the test, they gave him a circle and told him to put in the numbers of a clock. He did that fairly well. They he was told to put the hands of the clock at 11:10. He drew a picture of a hand pointing at the 10 and one pointing at the 11. He also could not remember any of the words given to him at the beginning after some conversation. The third indicator was a picture that he was asked to copy which he did fairly well. It was a very geometric looking picture. A little while later he was asked to draw it again from memory and could only draw a few lines here and there. How do you get someone to go who doesn't want to? Tell her it's prove that she does NOT have Alz. My husband agreed to do it because he thought he would "pass the test".

September 27, 2020
A myALZteam Member

She should be seen by a neurologist who will test her. If she doesn't get evaluated, she will not be able to have meds prescribed that could help her. It's better to know early on so she can get the help she needs. Best of luck.

September 27, 2020
A myALZteam Member

My husband was initially diagnosed with Progressive Aphasia, (speech disorder) which his Dr. told him in most cases it progresses to Alzheimer's. That was almost 5 years ago. He takes medication which has slowed his deterioration and acknowledges he has trouble speaking but he never talks about having Alzheimer's and I don't believe he thinks that is his problem. I doubt telling your husband he has Alzheimer's would help anything. My husband and I both joke about the fact we both have CRS (can't remember shit) and just go about life as best we can in our early 70's.

October 8, 2020
A myALZteam Member

Initially, it is a good idea to check thyroid and other blood work for any treatable issues. In the beginning some symptoms are the same.

October 1, 2020
A myALZteam Member

One test is to have them draw a clock. If they hesitate draw the circle, see they can put the numbers in.

September 27, 2020

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