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Shropshire

Hi all last night my husband was really confused about were we are living and even went to the tv to ask this bloke on there if he lived here as well it was hard to see him like that anyone else as the same problem ?

January 18, 2019
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Members connected over the disorienting experience of loved ones with dementia confusing television programs with real life, talking to people... Read more

Members connected over the disorienting experience of loved ones with dementia confusing television programs with real life, talking to people on screen, or becoming frightened by what they see, with several sharing how carefully managing what plays on TV has become an essential part of caregiving. Many members described sundowning as a common trigger for increased confusion in the evening hours, recommending practical strategies like keeping bright lights on throughout the home, ruling out medication side effects or urinary tract infections, and gently going along with confusion rather than correcting it when it's not distressing. A recurring theme was the emotional weight of witnessing these episodes, met with compassionate reminders that it's the disease, not the person, and that small interventions like therapy animals, medication adjustments, and environmental changes can bring meaningful relief.

A myALZteam Member

Has he had a change of meds lately ?
My hubby has just been taken off his third type of Dementia tablets as has bad side effects on them
This last one he was talking to the wall as if it was a person & telling me someone was behind me stealing !
Really spaced out .
Today without that tablet he is much better .
Check with Dr as a UTI has effects also ..
Rule other thing out first But this time of year with darker afternoons will have a effect on him also .

January 18, 2019
A myALZteam Member

Yes...I had similar experiences with my father of forgetting who his family was. Again its the disease and not their fault. They did not ask for this. Thoughts and prayers

January 18, 2019
A myALZteam Member

It's called Sundowning! My husband started experiencing the same thing last September. I was shaken the first few times it happened, but reading up on the subject helped me understand and deal with what was going on. Unless he's scared and needs soothing, I role play and go along with him. It also helps to keep lights on everywhere...it really does help.

January 18, 2019
A myALZteam Member

Thank you Judy he has been on new tablets for two weeks i find out about that ,,of course with the nights dark early that Dont help hope all s well with you ?

January 19, 2019
A myALZteam Member

It sounds like hubby has some sundowning thinking later in day....folks with Alz get confused when lighting is low inside or outside. I have a bright ceiling light that I turn on every late afternoon that seem s to decrease sundowning.

January 18, 2019

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