Excellent advice. Time to become her advocate and call out for help. You can do this. Blessings. Eddie

Judy, good morning, and welcome. Well, if you haven’t already mobilised help, perhaps now is the time to do so. Incompetence in the bathroom is common and sadly often a forerunner of more serious problems down the track. It took me a couple of months of work and cleaning up and talking and frankly losing my rag to get access to to bathroom to help my wife, Jackie. I think Know Dementia operate in your area and they are good people. Worth a call because even if they don’t work as far west as you they will probably have some pointers for you. tel:(Phone number can only be seen by the question and answer creators). Best wishes.