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My Mother Is Eating And Drinking All Of The Time. Is Anyone Else's Loved One Have This Issue? How Did You Deal With It?

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Garner, NC

My mother is in mid-starting late stages of Alzheimer's. We moved her back home from assisted living community because she took a good fall there. Since she's moved home (about 7 months ago) I cannot get her to quit drinking and eating. She always has to have a glass of juice, water, milk, etc with her. If she drinks it down halfway she starts to throw a fit about needing more. I've indulged her in this because I was happy to see her eating and drinking again - but it has gotten a bit out of… read more

June 10, 2018
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A myALZteam Member

I'm tickled she is willing to take in an adequate amount of fluids each day. Water is best but anything is better than nothing. Although my husband did go through a similar period, i.e. he ate anything in sight, he is not eating nearly as much as he once did.

Depending on how much weight your mom has gained, it may just be a phase as she transitions to a later stage. As you mentioned, we all worry as the disease takes away taste, smell, and appetite in addition to the increased challenges when a loved one can no longer feed themselves. One positive thing, she will have a reserve of body fat from which to draw as her appetite becomes diminished.

My personal and professional opinion as a caregiver and as a nurse is, if someone wants an oatmeal pie and an extra glass of milk...by all means, let them eat whatever sounds good to them. Soon enough they will be unable to eat and will only take a bite and perhaps a small sip of water until the body fails.

Best of luck to you and your mom. So very sorry.

June 10, 2018
A myALZteam Member

I am new to this ,and am just learning all the symptoms, but its nice to hear im not alone when it comes to eating. My father disnt eat for a month and after three days in hospital i cant seem to keep enough food in the house .thank you for helping me learn mor about alz

June 17, 2018
A myALZteam Member

I agree with Melissa. Also you don't have to take her shopping we started to buy elastic waists for her. My momma weighed about 230 when she was at her top weight and ended up down to less than 90 lbs so use second hand clothing. Let her gain just try taking her on walks she bored and wants something to do. If she cannot walk use a chair and you take her.

Good luck& prayers for you!

June 21, 2018
A myALZteam Member

I don't have an answer, but we are going through the same situation. It is like the switch that tells her when she's full is blown. Initially she lost some weight, and we bought smaller clothes. Now she cannot fit in ANY of her pants. Yikes!

June 17, 2018

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