Hopefully it was a UTI, and she's on the mend. Sometimes my mum is particularly miserable when she realizes her situation. When she's lucid and understands what's going on it adds she is very down. She has been suicidal, and is now on anti-depressants. She isn't as distressed as previously but still gets times when she is very distressed.

Are they thirsty, hunger or in discomfort/pain is the first step.

Hi no not a uti, mum already on anti depressants. Thanks for suggesting though

Thank you so much will do as carer mentioned mum had tummy pain to