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Alzheimers And No Long Term Memory

Alzheimers And No Long Term Memory

Many articles discuss short term memory loss but nothing about long term memory loss. My mother does not recall any memories. It's not only surprising but very difficult to converse with her about any subjects since her sort term memory is poor and she has no recall of memories from the past
I show her recent photo's of her great grand children which she loves to see and she seems happy and says how cute they are. We have tried looking at old photo's and she asks who these people are including… read more

A myALZteam Member said:

His dementia has come to a different stage I've see it often in my work ur only causing more frustration by showing photos of people whom he no longer regonises try music they say that part of the brain never dies hope this helps xxx

posted over 3 years ago
A myALZteam Member said:

KelliBarton, they have memories but you have to find a way to unlock their minds. Momma responded at the end to touch and songs or reading the Bible to her. You just have to search for your parents key to the lock.

Now for pain it's a twitch (they never had before), a moan, a wince, watch their eyes and lips pursing or different things. Momma touched my bottom when ever hers hurt (diaper rash) or rub her head whenever her head hurt. It's like watching a baby they normally don't cry they just react.

I hope this helps and my thoughts and prayers are with you!

posted almost 3 years ago
A myALZteam Member said:

At the later stages of dementia, the most important memory becomes "emotional" memory. our spouses or parents may not remember our names or who we are, but they will "know" and react to the emotions that they associate with us. So while they might not know you, they may know that you are that loving, kind and calm person who comes to visit.

posted over 3 years ago
A myALZteam Member said:

I realy like the analogy of the brick wall we build. The first level is the earliest childhood memories, and we add another level to this wall as we age. By the time we are elderly, we have a very tall brick wall full of memories. But dementia punches holes in that wall. For most people it mean taking a layer off at a time. ie short term memories are lost first, and as the disease progresses another layer is lost. Different types of dementia cause different damage to our walls. Some types wipe out huge chunks, other poke out bricks at random levels. As more bricks are lost, we are left with only the most basic of walls. No more knowledge of past, present or future. At best, some memory of childhood, hence why some people love dolls. Not necessarily as a "child" replacement but simply as a doll as in childhood. As for your mom, her "wall" may now be so small, that even long term memory is no longer there, and showing her photos that are old for you may be distressing for her. My advice, forget trying to get her to remember, and live with her in the here and now, or whatever her reality is. best of luck. XO

posted over 3 years ago
A myALZteam Member said:

My husband has also lost many long-term memories. He does not even remember marrying me over 48 and a half years ago. He no longer talks of his army days or even his grade school days. It is so sad.

posted over 2 years ago
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