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Hetshey

My mom takes bananas then hides them. She forgets and of course they rot. When I attempt to dispose of them she is very angry with me. Other favorites are napkins, soup spoons and towels
Because she now likes in a wonderful assisted living facility they are concerned about the behavior. Yesterday walking down to lunch my mom stops and takes gloves that were on a table. Now mind you I just took 3 pairs from her walker bag I asked her to continue walking to let other people by. Oh no come… read more

April 23, 2017
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Members connected over the common and often frustrating experience of loved ones with dementia hoarding or hiding everyday items like tissues,... Read more

Members connected over the common and often frustrating experience of loved ones with dementia hoarding or hiding everyday items like tissues, napkins, food, keys, bills, and gloves, often forgetting where they put them or becoming defensive when caregivers try to help. Several members shared practical coping strategies, including checking pockets before laundry, setting up organized folders for bills, buying multiples of frequently lost items, cleaning out hiding spots regularly to prevent pest problems, and staying firm yet compassionate when redirecting behaviors. A recurring theme was the importance of humor and grace in navigating these challenges, with many members emphasizing that laughter helps prevent burnout and keeps perspective during emotionally exhausting moments.

A myALZteam Member

My mom hids food leftover from her meal to feed to the dog. She also always has tissues or toilet paper stashed in her purse and pockets and her nightstand. We go through a lot of tissues. And after a mess in the washing machine, I have learned to check her pockets.
My theory is that she is worried that she will not have tissues when she goes to the bathroom. I reassure her there is plenty but that does not help.
I have to clean out her nightstand top drawer daily of food ... the ants have found her food stash. The dogs have learned her routine too. She knows I don't want her to feed them scraps at the table... sneaky. 😃You have to laugh.

April 25, 2017
A myALZteam Member

John hides things allover the house.He says people will steal them.He has hid things that we never found.

May 1, 2017
A myALZteam Member

You are exactly correct if we don't laugh I would be a sobbing mess. I don't if it just me but some days I just start sobbing and can't stop

April 30, 2017
A myALZteam Member

you do have to laugh, other wise you would slit your wrist lol my husband loves a tissue, toilet paper and kitchen roll! takes them all out and folds them up! love it.

April 30, 2017
A myALZteam Member

Oh my goodness, My mother was the worst hoarding. That seems to be a part of the disease. it took me one day to empty her bedroom and man i worked hard. That was approx 3 years ago. We brought her home from an overnight stay in the hospital on Friday evening, My sister and niece cleaned her room again, mostly the closet, she had 9 trash bags full and we didn't even address the top of the closet. Hang in there and I hate to say enjoy the hoarding stage, but I wish we had that back.

May 1, 2017

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