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I Am Placing My Husband Of 48 Years In An AL For 6 Days- My Much Needed Rest. Any Ideas On What And When To Tell Him?
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He is still angry about not driving or riding his dirt bike. Last year he had a horrible accident in the woods, and he still believes he can do everything he used to do. He comes to work with me as the family business was his before I bought out his partner and sold the shares to our Son, which has been at business 15 years anyway. There are so many pieces here and the bottom line is I am going out of town and he cannot be alone.... Any ideas?

A myALZteam Member

You're so right Steve. Unless you have a trusted person to stay with your loved one it's stressful either way.

posted April 19
What Are Some Activities That Are Easy. My Husband Likes Music And Watches A Little Tv. Shows No Interest In Games Etc?
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A myALZteam Member

My dad never liked games. He loves music and we have a classical music radio station playing in his apartment 24/7. A few years back, audiobooks were a HUGE blessing to us. We'd load history books on… read more

posted April 19
Do Memory Care Facilities (in California) Have To Self Report To Social Services A Fall That Causes Injury To A Resident In Their Care?
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My mom has fallen two times (hemotoma and bruising first fall and fractured spine and sacrum in second fall). Wondering if memory care must report this even though they didn't report her injuries to me.

A myALZteam Member

Yes I'm POA. Thank you I called Obudsman and trhey are very helpful!

posted April 16
Looking For Memory Care Place.
A myALZteam Member asked a question đź’­

Daily needs like bathrooming, dressing, showering. Doesn’t have medical needs.

A myALZteam Member

It’s a lot of research to find the places to visit and will fit your loved ones needs.. do you need the facility to be secured due to possible wandering?? …are you planning to private pay… read more

posted April 16
Is There A Good Alzheimer's Care Facility With Younger Patients Of ALZ Close To Me? My Partner & I Live In Northern Colorado.
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A myALZteam Member

I am sorry we don't live close to Colorado. I wish you the best. I suggest picking out a few close to home and visit them without an appt. We did that for my parents. You really see what it is… read more

posted April 14
How Does One Tactfully Take Away The Debit Card From A Spouse With Salient MCI (minimal Cognitive Impairment?
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A myALZteam Member

My husband is early stage, so what I've done is explain why we have to be especially careful with a debit card, as opposed to a credit card; and that we don't want to lose it because we don't want… read more

posted April 6
Question About Advanced Directive, DNR, And How To Interpret My Loved One's Wishes In Regard To The Advanced Directive.
A myALZteam Member asked a question đź’­

I have a question about an advanced directive and Alzheimer’s. I am guardian of my cousin, age 79, who never married and has no family except for me and a few cousins who are older than us! I am 76, and the baby of the family. Her advanced directive states that nothing should be done to extend her life and contains a DNR. In the document there is grey area about what should be done for her, especially regarding illnesses that an antibiotic or surgery might cure. I’d guess that she is in stage 6… read more

A myALZteam Member

@A myALZteam Member your cousin is blessed to have you care for her so well. You mentioned, "but I know she would never want to live in the condition she is in now...." which I feel is said with… read more

posted April 4
Hello. Any Suggestions On What To Do When A Loved One Keeps Wanting To "go Home"?Of Course Saying We Are Home Is Not Working.
A myALZteam Member asked a question đź’­

Sometimes "home means the house he grew up in which isn't there anymore & sometimes (when he doesn't know who I am) in means going to where I am. Any suggestions from any of you lovely people would be greatly appreciated. Best Wishes to each of you for a good day.

A myALZteam Member

That worked for him sometimes, but lately he gets angry when we get home and will ask “Why did we come here?” Of course I tell him “This is home” , but he doesn’t believe it. Ugh!

posted April 3
My Husband Of 50 Yes Has Dementia/Alzheimers And I Can Not Get Him To Ever Take Off His Clothes To Shower Or Wash Up Or Just Change. He Just
A myALZteam Member asked a question đź’­

Put first pair of depends on now I can't get him to take off the wet ones. HELP

A myALZteam Member

I definately do and unless one has experienced his horrible journey one has no idea. Many many uos and downs. I lost my Mom and Dad 4 days apart in February and layer them both to rest on the same day… read more

posted April 8
My Husband Is 83 And Has Alz. His Sex Drive Has Increased Exponetially! Do I Just Go Along, Find A Med To Reduce His Desire, Or What? Help!
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A myALZteam Member

After our most intimate moments my husband would talk to me as if I was someone else. Very heartbreaking! After being placed in SNF, there were problems with female staff. Medication has helped… read more

posted April 9
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