I feel like I need to talk to someone about how not to be angry all the time.
It's completely normal and valid to feel anger as a caregiver. Seeing a therapist who specializes in family counseling can be an excellent first step toward managing these feelings. They can provide personalized advice and coping strategies specifically for your situation.
While looking for a local counselor, here are some Show Full Answer
@A myALZteam Member: I'm sorry you are having to deal with this disease, and I hope you find a lot of information and support on this site.
I think every Caregiver needs three things, to survive this journey as a Caregiver:
1) this virtual Support Group;
2) a local, in-person Support Group; and
3) a therapist.
...so I truly hope you are able to find a local Support Group and a therapist in your area. The local Support Group gives you live people to connect with in your area, who are also dealing with this disease, and those who are ahead of you on this journey will share information about your best local resources (the best adult day care program, etc.)
The three resources will help you to channel your anger at the disease, rather than at the patient who has the disease. The patient didn't want this disease invading their life, either.