Maybe you can move him first and get him situated to see how it works out for everyone. There are articles on making your home more comfortable for someone with Alzheimer's. They have different needs, because of their limitations. A lot depends on the stage he is in, and how much care he needs. It's hard to liquidate property and take care of all the legal stuff. Don't try to do too much at once. Take care of yourself too. Caregiving is hard. I'm rooting for you.

My wife has tons of family close, but only two out of 10 are willing to help. And help means bringing a sandwich. True help has to cook and clean! I am paying folks for that! They live right in the condo, so if less expensive than Home Instead and it's much more flexible!

I hope it helps a little. I need to work towards moving closer to my family, to have more support with Ken. It's overwhelming. I'm gradually putting our ducks in a row. At first I felt it had to be done quickly. I realized I can do it in stages. I, too, feel the financial burden. I'm lucky that Kaiser offers a caregiver class. It's a zoom, so I don't have to commute. It's also turning out to be a support group. It has given me a lifeline. Maybe your Dad has something similar you can take advantage of. Good luck!

Take turns staying with him while YOU go take care of things...divide and conquer, if you will!

That is wise counsel! Oncd they have setled into their nw environment and routine, taking them out, even for a day or , makes e-entry difficult for ALL!