My mom is on hospice. I get 5 days respite care. I have made plans for her to go to the nursing home for 5 days. The guilt is overwhelming. Hospice promised one if their staff will be there every day. They approve of the nursing home and actually made arrangements for me. I don't have help, it's just me so I have never let anyone else care for her. I keep being told it will be as good for her as it will be for me. She's late stage 6 does not recognize surroundings and does not know people so I… read more
Please don't feel guilty. You need a break, even though it breaks your heart. You have to take care of yourself in order to continue to care foryour love one.. I too was the only one to care for my Mom until her care got out of my hands. And I had to place her in a facility. It was the hardest decision to make. đź’”
But at least you love one will come back home when respite is over. Please do what you have to do to keep your sanity through it all.
Because it's so hard. ...