Hi Marsha, I am sorry that you have experienced so much loss in recent years - I am sure that it can make taking care of your Mom feel very lonely. Making the decision to place a loved one in a caring place other than your home is always going to be a struggle for anyone who cares, but sometimes it can be very freeing, because you can go back to be a loving daughter, rather than a nurse, cook, housekeeper, laundress, activity coordinator and everything else that goes into taking care of our loved ones. If making this decision is going to free your heart of anger and let your exhaustion ease and allow you to continue to show your love to your mother, it may be the right decision for you. Take heart that you are wrestling with something that IS hard and trust yourself to make the best decision for your mother like you probably have a million times before. Sending hugs and support!❤️

I put my single bed on sliders hubby's bed is next to the wall àt night I slide my bed next to his to keep him from rolling off or getting up on his own my bed is easily moved when he needs to get up

So sorry for you, Marsha. I have the same issue with my husband. The 24/7 is exhausting. I, too, have no help. Might you be able to hire someone to sit with your Mom a couple of days a week so you could get out for a bit by yourself? That might help you with feeling angry and frustrated. Just take one day at a time. 🙏

Kathhy3.
What a great idea. It probably lets you sleep a little sounder knowing you will be aware if he is trying to get up! My husband spends a large part of the night up, but is not a danger yet. Will definitely keep this in mind when our needs change!!

I bought an alarm that sounds when the feet hit the floor. Works from a long distance and saved my sanity the last 2 years. Found on Wright’s medical supplies and amazon