I'm new to myALZteam. In my profile it asks me to "Add Provider". What are you referring to? My PC, my dad's PC? I don't think he sees a Neurologist. (I'll have to check- seems like he should be) !
I believe I put her neurologist when it asked that and if you don't I would've but down his primary care physician hope this helps
Memory care facilities advertise that they can take care of our loved ones, even to their dying day. But anyone who has a loved one in memory care, knows that, other than providing meals for them, administering their meds, and keeping them in a safe (locked) environment, thereās very limited ācaringā. This works ok for the early stages of dementia. Not so much, as the disease progresses. Seems like the only choices are to add 1x1 private care or allow the facility to medicate them until theyāreā¦ read more
I have known caregivers who regularly went to Memory home after their patient to visit every day.....
Is there a medication that any one has used for this problem that has been successful in lessen the physical aggression?
That aggressive behavior has to be so scary for you. Please talk to his doctor for a review of his meds. Itās hard because some meds work better than others and not all the time. I hopeā¦ read more
Hi All,
I'm wondering if any of you have found activities to keep your patient busy while sitting? My husband uses his cellphone to keep him occupied and it has created some horrible consequences. He's never been a "game player" so cards, jigsaw puzzles and that sort of thing is out. He's always been a work outside type of guy and I can't seem to find safe things for him to do. Does anyone have this issue and have you found any answers? Thanks for any ideas......
Can he use a leaf blower?
My husband loves to do that daily!
It seems my Loving wife of over 48 years has reached the stage where she knows my name but not that we are husband and wife. She also now does not know we had Children. I will call the Doctor this week as today is Sunday. Did medication change give anyone more time? Did your Love ones improve even for awhile. It seems we are entering a new stage and I don't want to scare my kids. She was always the best Mom and Grandmom.
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's frustrating. My dad now only knows a couple family members, and I'm not even positive of that any more. Interestingly, I live far away from him and he knows me on theā¦ read more
My husband is really good with my Mum (83); he makes her laugh, sometimes takes over in answering the every-other-minute repetitive questions and now travels with me once a year to my parentsā winter home so we can take Mum away for a few days to give my Dad a break. I am very grateful for this help. However, this time, he got very frustrated with me for ātrying to over-control everythingā and I am pretty angry at the lack of empathy and support I experienced. When away with my Mum, I have toā¦ read more
My spouse never understood how hard it was to look after my mother and it broke our marriage. My siblings also never understood how hard it was and we were estranged for about a year after my motherā¦ read more
Let's say your loved one with dementia also suffers constant chronic pain from autoimmune problems with cardiac problems and aging issues...would you choose an E.G.D. (light tube down the throat all the way to the beginning of small intestine) if your loved one was suffering abdominal pain with loss of appetite and vomiting bright red blood already has received 4 units of packed red cells
Here's the other caveat: during the procedure all Do Not Resuscitate requests must be reversed untilā¦ read more
@A myALZteam Member, I am so very sorry to hear you lost your mom. Though it was her time, a daughter can never be truly ready for that inevitability. Wishing you peace and comfort. You were there forā¦ read more
My parents are new memory care residents. What types of activities are your loved ones involved in that are enjoyable and stimulating?
As Barb4 said, that's precious. I can just see the two of you marching aroundš Maybe you should get some tambourines.
On one hand, I'm relieved...the day-to-day stresses of caring for a 200lb toddler and working a FT job are over. I tried my best and did my best (mostly) to keep him home...but it was becoming increasingly difficult. I toggle back and forth between, "I'm okay" and "I'm SO sad". I'm glad to be able to turn my full attention back to my job and my health. Taking care of so many things I had to put on hold for the past few years, it's overwhelming. I'm decluttering, throwing away, donating andā¦ read more
My husband is in memory care as I got Cancer knew I couldnāt do both, we were married 58 years and I still have guilt feelings, but know I never could handle it now he is 87 and I 80 and married 60ā¦ read more
Thank you so much, Jackie