He woke up with red eyes complaining of them hurting, but won’t let me put drops in. His fingernails need clipping badly, but he won’t let me cut them. Complains of his pants falling off, but won’t accept my help to put his belt on. Can’t cut his hair or beard. And so on and so on. Angry with me ALL of the time. My question is, how do y’all deal with this type of behavior? I know I’m not the only one. It gets to the point where I just have to turn it off and… read more
I switched my mother’s slacks to elastic waist bands sweat pants and switched pullover tops to blouses and cardigans. Socks are a nightmare because of large ankles so I got short athletic socks. I had to remove old clothing completely from her closet.
This sounds like my husband. Sometimes I try to smooth his hair when the wind messes it up. He will tell me to stop. He doesn’t want my help with anything. It’s like he doesn’t even like me anymore. It really hurts.
Do you have family members that he may let them do some of these things?! If not you can always try to make a game to distract him
Mimit, I hear you. Hang in there, my friend .
My husband is now the same ,I am trying to help with his creams,medication & hearing aids but he has now got really angry with me telling me to leave & that I am nagging him all the time. Suppose to be going away tomorrow for 3 nights for our anniversary but he said he's not going .very upsetting but think I'm going on my own just to get a break