Oh yes ,in the beginning , Don would say that he didn't have a problem , it was me that had a problem, I was the crazy one. Then later on he would say that I caused his problem. It was all my fault. AND when people where around he use to be able to hide his behaviors from them. They use to say " he seems fine to me." Don could put on such a good front and it would make me so angry. Now ,after 12 years , he can no longer hide it. Hang in there. Someone once said to me " Don needs someone to blame and guess what SusieQ your It." .

I so know the feeling . cub would do that also but then the family and friends seen right through him.