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Mom Keeps Saying She Wants A Dog Or A Cat

A myALZteam Member asked a question 💭
Bristol, VT

Mom keeps saying she wants a cat or a dog. She thinks she can just go for a walk with the dog but it is determined she should not walk without someone else. I am not ready to take on the responsibility of a dog, maybe a cat. When I offer to take her to humane society to visit with the cats, she says she's not ready to make a decision. I know a cat would be a good companion for her. What is the best way to encourage this?

September 29, 2018
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Members overwhelmingly encouraged getting a cat for this person's mother, sharing how their own pets have become deeply devoted companions to... Read more

Members overwhelmingly encouraged getting a cat for this person's mother, sharing how their own pets have become deeply devoted companions to loved ones with dementia, often staying by their side, providing comfort, and becoming someone to talk to throughout the day. Several members offered practical suggestions, including adopting a calm adult lapcat or a young kitten, fostering first to test the arrangement, or even trying lifelike robotic pets or stuffed animals that breathe or snore if a real pet feels like too much responsibility. A recurring theme was the powerful bond between people with cognitive decline and their pets, with many describing how cats in particular require less care than dogs while still offering affection, routine, and emotional support that can be profoundly meaningful.

A myALZteam Member

Have a look on the unforgettable site. I bought mum a life like dog that simulates breathing.They do cats also xxx

September 29, 2018
A myALZteam Member

An animal & my mom was too much for me, mom would over feed , trip over etc. Bought a large stuffed dog , breed reminded her of my sister's dog. She sleeps with it, talks to it, carries it around like a pet. Best thing going! Also have smaller stuffed animal, pig , that snores. She is best in car with it & helps her nap by cuddling.

January 6, 2019
A myALZteam Member

Maybe adopt an adult cat that is calm and cuddly. Make sure it is friendly and a lapcat, then just show up with it! A small dog is great, but a lot of care.

November 9, 2018
A myALZteam Member

You could try fostering a cat; that's short term and you could get out of the committment if it doesn't work. Where are you located?

October 15, 2018
A myALZteam Member

My husband loves our fur baby Chris. She's a Turkish Angora cat who we brought over from Cyprus when we repatriated. I keep him up-to-date with her latest doings. I find cats affectionate and easy to have around.

September 29, 2018

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