I used to take her outside to see the sunset or have her HELP with dinner. Sometimes we would take a walk or drive. She's confused so don't get upset or she'll stay confused. Give her something to look forward to. Hope this helps a bit. Prayers

Daylight bulbs helped me with my dad, which I would turn on just as the light began to change in the house.

Hi lisa my mum is also 89 when she gets agitated i do manicures and foot soaks and pedicures.
I also play C.D.s. of restful music and meditation music while doing these things it does help distract them.hugs and prayers to you and your family.

thank you

Hi Lisa, sundowning is a difficult one to deal with. The person’ levels of anxiety and agitation rise significantly. Unfortunately, no-one knows why or how it happens. The suspicion is that their body clock gets out of its routine and it creates some confusion for them. You are on the right track with the back rub. Anyhting that is calming tends to help but it probably won’t eliminate it altogether. Quiet music, as little noise as possible, good light in rooms etc are all things that can help. I found a good half hour walk a day has helped my wife’s anxiety and agitation levels significantly. Exercise is a good thing for Alz patients. This link to an article on Sundowning may help you a little more
http://www.alzheimersweekly.com/2013/02/what-ca...