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Cape Town, ZA

My Mom is used to taking care of Dad (both in frailcare) but he is now extremely ill and we do not expect him to live much longer. Would having a doll to look after help my Mom to transfer her need to nurture someone?

March 6, 2016
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Members overwhelmingly supported the idea of giving someone with Alzheimer's a doll or stuffed animal to help fulfill their need to nurture,... Read more

Members overwhelmingly supported the idea of giving someone with Alzheimer's a doll or stuffed animal to help fulfill their need to nurture, sharing that it can provide comfort and a sense of purpose during difficult transitions like losing a spouse. Several members offered important nuances from their own experiences, noting that while some loved caring for realistic baby dolls, others found dolls too stressful and did better with stuffed pets like cats or dogs that resembled beloved animals from their past. A recurring theme was the importance of trying what feels right and being willing to adjust based on the individual's response, with many members expressing prayers and solidarity for families navigating these heartbreaking decisions.

A myALZteam Member

We gave my mom a doll but it backfired on us because she felt like she needed to take care of it constantly. It caused more stress for her to have it and the aides agreed, so we had to take it away. What she does have though is a stuffed cat and she is better able to cope with that.

March 13, 2016
A myALZteam Member

I'm sorry about your mom and dad. Prayers are with you and your family. Anything you think of that may bring comfort to your mom is certainly worth a try. God bless.

March 22, 2016
A myALZteam Member

[[email: [[email: (Email address can only be seen by the question and answer creators)'m glad it helped. It's funny you mentioned your mom's Maltese because my mom had one too....and then a Pomeranian. I went online to find a "look-a-like" for him and she loved it too.....along with the cat....lol. Whatever makes her happy makes me happy. Hugs and prayers for you and yours. ♡

March 15, 2016 (edited)
A myALZteam Member

I got an older poodle that was already trained for my husband. He is still home with me and we both enjoy that dog tremendously. He'll talk to that dog as if she were his child. I don't know where we would be if we hadn't gotten her.

March 21, 2016
A myALZteam Member

yes it would help .i work in a nursing home and many have dolls and some cats they believe to be real

March 6, 2016

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