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How Do I Deal With The Driving Issue.
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My husband is 85 and was diagnosed with vascular dementia 2 1/2 yrs ago. Had been aware there were problems since about 80. He broke a vertebrae last December which needed surgery etc. In the interim his license expired. Now that he's doing much better he wants to get his license renewed. He should not driving

posted October 29, 2022
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Karen, contact your auto insurance agent. He/she will tell your husband about the uninsurable aspects of driving while a dementia patient. You are both potentially exposed to large liabilities in the event of an accident.

posted October 29, 2022
A myALZteam Member

I had to convince my 80-year-old husband that he could no longer drive.

posted October 29, 2022
A myALZteam Member

Tell your Dr. Do not approve of him having license.๐Ÿ‘

posted October 29, 2022
A myALZteam Member

In addition to the suggestions above, remind yourself of 2 things, 1) driving equals independence and capability, and he is aware that he is losing both. A sad and painful situation for him, so be gentle in what you do. 2) Driving with dementia is a danger to himself and anyone on the road in his path so you must be firm and keeping him from behind the wheel. As difficult as it is, itโ€™s the right thing!

posted October 30, 2022
A myALZteam Member

There are a few things you can do, ask his doctor to talk to him about not driving then when he brings it up remind him of what the doctor has said. Talk to the DMV and let them know he has dementia and they will suspend his licence, and of course what Robert has said about the insurance company. You will have to remind him from time to time no matter what you do and eventually he will let go of driving. ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ˜Š

posted October 30, 2022

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