My husband doesn't reason correctly and therefore a civil conversation to deal with a problem is impossible. He yells violently at me and cannot reason with him. He accuses me of skullduggary and that I'm a bad person/motives etc. I find it hard to take the yelling and it crushes my spirit. I know I have to rise above that and not take anything personally. How do you handle these things? I know it's the illness, but this part is hard for me. To have him sometimes hate me, and most of all… read more
I found that I had to stop talking to him about finances or asking him questions about how I should handle things with are apartment buildings, who I should get to fix something, etc. Anxiety would increase and you could tell by answers, he didn't understand. That was hard to stop communicating about things that where important but sticking to the whether or bringing up things from the past or just listening to his favorite music, going for rides which he loved was better than any hardcore conversations and for sure - no questions about anything!
Ask his doctor to prescribe Nuplazid. It seems to calm.
Talk to your doctor. Maybe medication for him would help.
You need some relief from your Husband. Can anyone (family)
Stand in for you to get away from him a few days a week. Or maybe a daycare relief for Alzheimer patients? Just a suggestion. Take care of yourself, no one can replace you. So, where would he go if you could not take care of Him?
Hope your situation gets better soon. Hugs
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