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We Are Choosing Not To Tell Mom Of Her Alzheimer's Diagnosis.
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How have you handled questions that go like this...

"Why am I not remembering pieces of my life"?
"I feel like I'm going crazy"

We did not know what was happening with her until just 10 days ago and she has spiraled quickly since January.

Thanks in advance for your input.
Lisa

posted March 16, 2020 (edited)
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A myALZteam Member

Hi Rebecca - I am wondering why you are choosing not to tell her? Clearly if she is asking those questions she understands that something is wrong and telling her that nothing is wrong seems like it would only confuse her more. My Mom was diagnosed 5 years ago and while her progression has been relatively slow, she definitely has periods where she knows something is wrong and wants to talk about it. Personally, I believe that our doctors have a responsibility to help in this process, by being clear about what is happening and what will happen with our loved ones. Illness is illness and we all have the right to know what is happening to us. Just my opinion, being honest may be difficult at first, but in the end it can make the whole process easier.

posted March 16, 2020 (edited)
A myALZteam Member

I agree, you should tell her. I told my husband and he took it very well. Good luck.
Blessings.

posted March 16, 2020
A myALZteam Member

Mom has had cognitive challenges since birth. I'm rethinking my decision but still very unsure. Thank you for the support!

posted March 16, 2020

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