he is no longer able or interested in them and says if we sell our house we will leave them there - when is an appropriate time to start disposing of them as they are a constant reminder of the man who slipped away before my very eyes and there was nothing i could do to save him ! the boys indicated they are not interested in having them so ultimately it willbe me doing this - we are not shifting btw - it was just his way of dealing with something that is too difficult now ! 😢