Have them give you a change of clothes and adult pull up with pads. And gloves. Change him in the bathroom. He can’t help it. I alway take a bag of. Stuff. With me when u take Jim Out. That what they do. At some point. They don’t realize. When they need to go. Maybe next time see if a care provider can go to your house with him. So sorry. Thing didn’t work out as plan
Enjoy your day wherever you are in the world. Life passes so fast, love one another, resent no one it isn't worth the pain
I sent Christmas cards for Momma Nita and issued invitations for her friends to come for several small get togethers during the Holiday season. She is a social butterfly. I enjoy watching her spread her wings whenever guests appear. She puts on jewelry and lipstick, but it is the joyful expression on her face that makes her beautiful.
Enjoy spending the holidays in their world! Don't try to bring them back into our world. Sometimes. The entertainment from the world they live in can be very entertaining!
What we have been doing the last oh 3 years is order a precooked turkey/ham from Kroger. It comes with side dishes too. So dad picks it up at Kroger the night before and we drive down the day of and do all the cooking that is needed. But this way its not all day cooking. We put the meat in the oven for 3 or 4 hours and it is done. We were doing this even when mom was alive because she was not able to cook anymore. At least we get to enjoy a meal together and visit. My brother is a pilot, so it depends on his schedule on whether he will be able to come or not. He is retiring in March, so hopefully he will be able to help more.