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Sex. I Think My Dad Is In Relationship With Another Person In Sheltered Accommodation, Do We Do/say Anything?
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My dad (80) is in early stages and we recently moved him into sheltered accommodation. He had been living on his own for 6 years since my mum died. My sister and I share looking after him and getting him settled into his new shared home. He hasn't yet finished getting his final assessment yet, but we have social and care workers helping us through this transition phase until we get him finally settled. As such, no-one has had the conversation about dementia to him, but me and my sister coyly… read more

posted April 17, 2017
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It seems like they have found some companionship, romance or both.

posted April 21, 2017
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A friend's mom was in a home and met an older gent and took such a fancy to him. They would sit and hold hands eat together. But then the gent's family objects and her mom was moved to another section. She passed within 2 months after that. So I personally think you should let him be happy in this stage.

posted April 19, 2017
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It is not that uncommon. Read about Sandra Day O'Connor's husband. Does the shelter have any policies regarding this issue? If so, then they need to deal with it. If not, then I would try to connect up with the family of the lady (or have the staff mention it to them). If they are alright with it, then let them find what enjoyment they can in the life they have left.

posted April 18, 2017

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